Jennifer Huard's weekly column appears in the Rio Rancho Journal section of the Albuquerque Journal newspaper. Email her at jhuard@abqjournal.com

Giving at Thanksgiving (11/14/06)
 

There is an air of generosity this time of year. It always seems the holidays bring out the bighearted side in many people. It is the compassion in people’s hearts that propel them to get involved and help those less fortunate.

Here in Rio Rancho we have many ways in which people can help those less fortunate. Many of us will be hosting our extended families over the holiday putting on a banquet of delicious foods. But there are some people in Rio Rancho who won’t be hosting a full house this coming holiday. There are homebound elderly, convalescing, or disabled persons in our community who rely on an organization called Meals on Wheels to nourish their bodies and spirits by providing hot, home delivered meals and social contact. Meals on Wheels is an almost entirely volunteer run organization which prepares regular and special medical diet meals in its own kitchen. Make this Thanksgiving special for someone who may be spending it alone. Contact Meals on Wheels at (505) 823-8060 to learn what volunteer positions are available this holiday season. Bring a smile to a face just by showing up at their door.

There are many good reasons to show your compassion and kindness toward others. A few may be right under your feet. Remember, children are watching you and doing as you do, not as you say. Which reminds me of that old verse I have tacked up on my wall in my office that I think is appropriate to share during this time of giving. It is written from a child’s perspective on observing the actions of a parent. Let’s pass on our compassion for others by modeling the behavior we wish to instill in our children.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you hang my first painting on the refrigerator, and I immediately wanted to paint another one.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you feed a stray cat, and I learned that it was good to be kind to animals.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make my favorite cake for me and I learned that the little things can be the special things in life.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I heard you say a prayer, and I knew there is a God I could always talk to and I learned to trust in God.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you make a meal and take it to a friend who was sick, and I learned that we all have to help take care of each other.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you give of your time and money to help people who had nothing and I learned that those who have something should give to those who don't.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw you take care of our house and everyone in it and I learned we have to take care of what we are given.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw how you handled your responsibilities, even when you didn't feel good and I learned that I would have to be responsible when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw tears come from your eyes and I learned that sometimes things hurt, but it's all right to cry.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I saw that you care and I wanted to be everything that I could be.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I learned most of life's lessons that I need to know to be a good and productive person when I grow up.

When you thought I wasn't looking, I looked at you and wanted to say, "Thanks for all the things I saw when you thought I wasn't looking."

Little eyes see a lot. Each of us parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, teachers and friends influence the life of a child. How will you touch the life of someone this season of giving? Reach out and prove to yourself you really do have more time, compassion and strength to give others.

Quote of the Week: “It is not length of life, but depth of life”.-
Ralph Waldo Emerson


 

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